You’re absolutely right; self-awareness is the key to all healing and it’s a tool most people lack. Like my ex-husband, many are quick to make it the other person’s problem (i.e., “My mother has a problem letting go.”) instead of taking a deeper look into how they may be enabling that person and fueling the problem.

Thank you for taking the time to read and leave such an insightful comment based on your personal experience. It makes me hopeful that we can all learn from eachother.

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Loving partner + mama. 3x NYT bestselling author. Pen name Karrine Steffans. Performance Coach. Psych Major. https://linktr.ee/lilibetovesen

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