A woman who is autonomous in any way will do whatever she pleases, whenever she please, with whomever she pleases. Just because a woman is sexually autonomous does not mean she does not have a desire to be with one partner. Settling down is not a bad thing, but settling is. Monogamy is indeed a reward if it is a woman’s goal. Non-monogamy is also a reward if that’s the goal. What’s never a reward is being told what men think women should or should not do and what their personal rewards should or shouldn't be.